Even though I am expecting my second child, there are a lot of things about this pregnancy and the situation in general that are very new. I feel like I am preparing for this baby sort of like I did with Isabelle in that there are so many things I don't know what to expect.
For example, I was pregnant with Isabelle while we lived in Idaho. Living in Utah means I now have a new OB/GYN and will be delivering at a different hospital.
We now live in a much smaller house. Space was literally not an issue when we were preparing for Isabelle's arrival. Her bedroom was plenty big to easily accommodate her crib, rocking chair, changing table, etc. Now, I'm in the process of converting our office into the nursery, finding new space for our office, and deciding what baby necessities and furniture I can sell, so I can buy something similar, but smaller.
Sure, I'm only 4 months along, but I'm also 4 months along and it seriously feels like I just barely found out I was pregnant. In other words, time is going by quickly and the new baby will be here before I know it, so there really is no reason to procrastinate.
And then there's the ultimate dilemma: what to name the baby. This will be an easier decision to make once we know the gender of our child {which we should find out in less than 2 weeks!}. We were dead set on Isabelle from the moment we found out we were pregnant, so, again, this "up in the air-ness" with the name is only slightly annoying me.
Overall, I suppose I didn't expect to feel so unprepared this time around. But, like all things, it will work out. I just know it!
Thoughts?
It is hard leaving an OB/GYN. You gain such a personal relationship...Oh my goodnes...I had to leave mine but because my insurance changed.
ReplyDeleteYou'll wrap your head around the whole baby thing soon enough and you'll get organized. I totally think the 2nd is more overwhelming, the the third throws you for a loop.
I'm glad to hear you think the second time around is more overwhelming. I mean, I certainly hope you didn't have a horrible experience, but it's nice to know I'm not alone.
DeleteIt really DOES feel like you just found out. I can't believe it's been 4 months already. Time is weird.
ReplyDeleteWell said, my friend. Time is weird.
DeleteWe have 2 children but didn't go through the change of scenery like you. Choosing the name is really the hard part. I wonder if you're hoping for a boy or girl?
ReplyDeleteWe both are hoping for another girl, but, like everyone says, a healthy baby is the thing we are hoping for most.
DeleteWOW! Congratulations in advance to you my dear. I know it is really hard for you to change to another OB Gyn and I know for sure everything will run smoothly.
ReplyDeleteThank you! So far, it's been a really great change.
DeleteI love baby names! I wish I could have a whole flock of children just to name them! But we were also completely up in the air about Flynn's name until right before he was born.
ReplyDeleteI think your observation about time flying by makes sense. While I've only been pregnant once, I can see how time would seem so much faster the second time. My first pregnancy, though I loved it, felt so loooonng.
Congrats!
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I really love baby names, too. I'll admit, I enjoy browsing the Internet for names. It's fun to think of what we'll eventually end up choosing. Thanks for your comment!
DeleteSo who's your new doctor? I love baby names too. It's one of my favorite things to talk about. I can't wait to hear what you're having!!
ReplyDelete“But, like all things, it will work out. I just know it!” - That’s the attitude! For second-timers, moms will be much more prepared and aware in carrying and delivering their babies. But since you are switching OB-GYN, it would be best if you scout as early as now, so you can start with your appointment. As early as three months on pregnancy, mothers need aproper checkups, guidelines and advice from their doctors. It will also help you to plan out your pregnancy up to the day of delivery. If you are on the look for a new OB-GYN, you can scout on hospitals and clinics near your place. Or you can check out the net for qualified doctors that will assist you on your pregnancy.
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